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I (23F) have a port placed in my chest for IV medication and blood draw access. So I'm currently 13 weeks with baby #2 and with my first, we told everyone when started pushing and they all rushed over and all piled in my room about 20 minutes after I gave birth. ·. My wife and I just had our second child, a baby girl. Ok, first and foremost, my mother is not in dying condition, she’s fine. Memes allowed, shitposts only on weekends. We met in high school and have been dating ever since. AITA for not letting the kids visit my ex-husband in the hospital? Not the A-hole. my husband had been supporting me for this, i was invited to their house for dinner and some friend were invited as well, we were talking at the table and i excused myself to go to the bathroom, when i got out, a guy i know was outside the bathroom and told me to follow him, followed him and we were standing near a wall and i can hear fred Join the community of moral philosophers and share your dilemmas. The fact that according to her I wasn’t there for her when she needed me and I was being a bad friend. He’s had a couple other girlfriends since then and is still with one of them currently, but he still did go MOD. AITA for kicking my baby’s father out of the hospital room? Not the A-hole POO Mode. First things first, sorry for formatting I'm on mobile. My estranged husband was in a bad car accident and needed emergency surgery. Read the comments to see who is the asshole. When I asked him why, he told me that he needed to be with his wife at the hospital. I had to stay in the hospital for 2 days. He sat down and took the time to do this and never once did it occur to him “you know, this might be a little ridiculous”. Help keep the sub engaging! AITAH for choosing my baby's name without asking my "partner" and telling him I don't want him at the hospital when I'm in labour (currently 37 weeks) The reason I put partner in "" is cause he broke up with me a couple days ago but then told my mum he didn't even tho I literally have it on my text messages (yes he broke up with me over text" but he's just found out through a mutual friend ADMIN MOD. My pregnant wife has gestational diabetes and is still a few months away from giving birth. His family has always loved me and thought of me as their own, but now I’m not for sure. The fact that everyone thinks he is getting a disproportionate amount of attention means he probably is, and has been for a long time. I bet if you asked the hospital, they’d even have a quick one-liner you could feed your mom about how they suggest only parents, or they “require” visitors to wait outside anyways, etc. I’m on a business trip until Saturday but I drive back in time to be there Saturday morning before she woke up. I have returned and my sister had the expectation I would be still be My (31m) wife (32f) was having a ton of really bad abdominal pain last weekend. My husband threw her a small birthday party. The wildest part of all of this for me is imagining this idiot sitting down the the hospital bill and going through each item, one by one, to determine which things were “luxuries” that were on her. It will be the same. m. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I am now 8 months pregnant, almost 9 with a girl. My only local friends moved to the We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I repeatedly rejected Tom's friends efforts for me to emotionally help him (2) I feel like I'm too harsh and rude, as he is sick and maybe I should have had more empathy. Award. You did do the right thing, don't let your friends make you think otherwise. I said no, that is not a reason to disobey the court order and that he either could stay with the girls, leave the girls with a babysitter or take them with him to the hospital. Not every one is this way, but damn-near every hospital in this country is a money-making machine before everything Subreddit for listeners of the Two Hot Takes Podcast! Here you can post your own write ins, thoughts on the stories shared on the pod, or any ideas for future episodes, etc. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. She adores me and my older sister (18f) but to me it's all one sided and she's just annoying. I have dated 3 guys that refused to come visit. I (19F) just had a baby 1 day ago. My bestfriend freaks out and calls an ambulance. A few days ago my mom called me to tell me she was in the hospital due to her appendix bursting. (1) Getting her sent to the hospital (2) She got hurt because of it Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. 30 every day so if someone texted me at 6 it would be on silent, and while I would likely turn that off if someone I knew had gone to the ER the night before that does depend on them being sober enough My (31m) wife (32f) was having a ton of really bad abdominal pain last weekend. Unbeknowest to me, my boys (16) & (12) decided to pull a funny prank and mess with the birthday cake that they made for her. Nobody likes hospitals. She initially went to two emergency rooms in a span of a week and they released her. AITA for filing a complaint about a hospital worker trying to touch my baby? Not the A-hole. 4. Appointment went fine, but afterwards i had to head downstairs to the lab to get some blood drawn. The only thing we didn’t agree on was middle names. I may be the asshole because I put my friends feelings over my partners and wanted to go to the hospital Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. My mother and my aunt are second first generation Americans as my grandmother and Grandfather met in a concentration camp during WWII and were liberated and came to America. Onto the issue at hand. My husband continued to tell me to listen to the hospital admins and doctor. When we had kids we decided I would name the first boy and she would name the first girl. They've gotten worse the past 6 months. When we found out we were expecting our first child I assumed she would use the hospital closest to us that's 15 min away in a heavily A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. Commercial-Grand-552. You don't have your license, under no circumstances should you be in the poistion or be pressured to drive drunk folks to the hospital. I’ve been going to my local infusion clinic at my hospital for flushing. 3. Asshole. You proposed various solutions and ultimately, did get them to the hospital safely. The name is embroidered onto a blanket that has ADMIN MOD. Help keep the sub engaging! this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Summary: A few days ago, my parents handed me (17) a hospital bill to pay back for a visit in August. My wife (35F) has 3 kids from a previous marriage (17F, 10M, 5M) and we have a 1 year old together. MembersOnline. , especially if they had been high or drinking the night before. I (29F) and my husband (30M) have been together for 8 years. I literally was sitting in a hospital bed for 7 hours at a time. Now she is apologising and says she didn't know and that she is sorry she lied and blah blah. Recently, his grandmother (83 F) had a heart attack, a really bad one, and she’s been in the hospital for quite some time. I (22F) am dating my (22M) boyfriend for over 5 years now. I have 4 kids, Alexis (15), Lucas (12), Ronnie (11), and Allie (8). She looked at me so offended like I just sacrificed our first born. So take your mom. Cathy was walking a bit behind me and my dog. She said “excuse me?” And I said “what?”. People cross-post stories for a chance that our podcast hosts (Sean, John and Josh) will read the story on the show. I think a lot of people wouldn't answer texts at 6 a. Yesterday my friends and I were hanging out in the park: me + my dog, my friend Cathy + her dog, and another friend Jenny. TLDR: Days after we finished an annual de-escalation training which explained to us in detail how nurses are responsible for all violent encounters, my hospital is insisting that a patient's violent, abusive, sociopathic ex (father of the baby), who has promised violence on her and others around her, be allowed to visit if she says it's okay. So I (f 31) never had a good relationship with my father. For the past year and a half, I have had to work and then come home and do the majority of the household chores and I was also treated as the nurse. Context: I’m in the middle of my second trimester of my first pregnancy and learned that a C-section is a possibility. AITA for not sleeping at the hospital with my wife? Asshole. My parents divorced when I was 13 (for the better), my dad remarried and he didn't put a lot of effort into maintaining (or rather building) a healthy relationship with You really need to pay attention to the way everyone else in your family feels. The other day she was at a mutual friend’s I called my MiL and she came and took us to the hospital. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I refuse to accompany my boyfriend to the hospital and hotel for his operation for multiple reasons, including that it will be my birthday. Plus the doctor wishes me to not exceed 39 weeks whether this be induced natural labor or via C-section. AITA for not paying my nephews hospital bill? Not the A-hole. AITA for not driving my friend to the hospital when she called me for help? A close friend of mine who lives on the other side of the city was in severe pain early in the day a few days back. She has kids of her own, 5 to be exact, 2 female and 3 male. He (admittedly) never wanted to be a father and it showed. ) I work in a children’s hospital and I was checking up on a young boy (10M) earlier today who is terminally ill and isn’t expected to make it past November. AITA for changing my daughters middle name while my wife was asleep? Asshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I told my father’s wife that I didn’t care about him being in the hospital. AITA: Hospital Visitors. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA! Follow the link above to learn more A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. As a dialysis patient for quite some time I was there 3 nights a week, for over a decade, and then here and there for all the random tests and appointments. Vote and comment on others' posts. This is a throwaway account because I've given my real Reddit info to some friends. However my brother passed away 2 weeks ago and I had to travel on short notice to attend his funeral. Even though we have a strained relationship, I still went to the hospital with our son in case he wanted to see our son when he woke up and to support my in-laws who I still have a great relationship with. He finished uni exams early and came home while my uni AITA for Declining A Ride Home From the Hospital That My Father Arranged with a Stranger? I'm a 45F, and this is my first reddit post! I live alone in a very rural area, it's isolated. You really need to pay attention to the way everyone else in your family feels. She’s basically in there waiting to see doctors for a an odd breathing issue. AITA for not paying hospital bills after my friend tripped over my dog? Not the A-hole. We do long distance but in the same country as we are both at different universities. My dad, stepmom, my MIL and step FIL AITA for not visiting my mom I’m the hospital. I spent the last 20 years in and out of the hospital all the time. She doesn’t have a mean, or malicious bone in her body. We’ve been in and out of the hospital for months. Her breathing wasn’t getting better even after taking I then texted her that I need to go to the hospital now. She then started berating me about not being presence and won’t concentrate during the labor but rather on the game. I explained my situation to the emergency responder, and she asked if there was somebody that could drive me to the hospital, and I stupidly said yes. My wife says to stay with her so I say ok. Something important to know is that Alexis has a picc line (big take home iv) and is getting blood thinner injections every Only having the parents of the baby at the hospital is so normal. NTA you went to the hospital to treat your mental health, part of that was helping you over come your dysphoria by starting you on T. You are now an adult and you're now in charge of your own life. Help keep the sub engaging! Throwaway because family browses reddit, this is fairly long so I apologize. He suffered bad brain damage and was not the same person he used to be. Everyone has their own personal reasons. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. I have not paid it back yet, and I’m not sure if refusing would make me an asshole. Like taking your mom. So the poor little kid struggled on without her. You need to leave your mothers house because she is negatively impacting your mental health. The sister is likely taking out her frustration of the whole situation on you, because it’s probably crazy hard to be in the middle of, but it’s still not your fault. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1 I didn’t visit my mam in hospital but still actively helped her 2 Not visiting an ill parent is selfish and she was hurt by it. AITA for banning my husband's mother from the hospital because of what she did? AITA for banning my husband's mother from the hospital because of what she did? My husband has been suffring from health issues for years. AITA For Getting A Nurse Fired During A Healthcare/Job Crisis? Not the A-hole. So, to get started, I am 36m, and my wife is 33f. So BG: My dad was in an accident when I was 6. ADMIN MOD. Yup, completely. A demanding, entitled, selfish, arrogant and controlling partner. In my husband's family, there is a tradition of naming a baby before it is born. For the next 30 minutes this post is in. My uncle’s wife was so selfish she refused to visit her eight or nine-year-old, who was in hospital for many days, because it would be ‘too distressing’ for her. If your mom can't take herself to the doctor, then it's absolutely your dad's job. A while after she wakes up, the doctor comes in. Urgent care made her go to the ER where they determined that her appendix needed to come out that day. His uncle was previously on the hospital’s board of directors. (2) I think I might be the asshole cause he’s in the hospital and want to see me to make things right. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. His father (21M) and I have not been together since November due to him cheating. NTA, you were advised not to visit, which isn’t unusual in a mental health situation, and you followed that advice. ever since she was around 9. At the same time I understand that you were in pain, stressed, and that frustration led you to treat your parents in an unfortunate way. Wild_You_3661. It’s been very hard because her family is across the country and her fiancé is deployed right now. Tell Dad to step up and be a spouse. AITA for how I fought my boyfriend's medical bill, going "too far"? Not the A-hole. My mother, who is 70, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and has been My (40m) very pregnant wife (36f) is one of the purest women I know. AITA for wanting my bf to visit me in hospital. We are expecting our first child soon. AITAH for choosing my baby's name without asking my "partner" and telling him I don't want him at the hospital when I'm in labour (currently 37 weeks) The reason I put partner in "" is cause he broke up with me a couple days ago but then told my mum he didn't even tho I literally have it on my text messages (yes he broke up with me over text" but he's just found out through a mutual friend The way to stop associating the hospital with your suicide attempt is to go to the hospital for other reasons. Advice Needed. So, this is a throwaway account. Me (44F) and my ex-husband (48M) have three kids (16M,14M,11M). THIS SUBREDDIT IS FOR A PODCAST CALLED Reddit On Wiki, THAT READS REDDIT STORIES. When she called at 5 in the morning I only had been asleep for 1 and a half hours and fought hard to wake up fully and to even focus enough on her . I will check some of these comments, but not all. I (29M) didn't go check on my mother (53F) in the hospital after a serious health problem because she specifically told me not to go. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. A couple weeks ago, my mother (45 years old) had a heart attack (she's going to be fine), and as the title suggests, I didn't go to visit her in the hospital. AITA for not seeing my grandmother in the hospital Not the A-hole Im f19 & I grew up without my father being a part of my life his entire side of the family doesn’t bother with me yet we live in the same town & I have a lot of them on Facebook & whatnot, yet they’ve never taken the time to ever have a relationship with me since I was a baby Last week was my stepdaughter's (SD) 14th birthday. I (26 F) have been with my husband (28 M) for 10 years. I yelled at him and demanded that he leave because he had no right to come and act worried after he ignored my daughter and me when in dire need for help. I had fairly easy births but even so, being in the hospital with people constantly coming in and out (plus them being hyper-focused on this little new person you just grew) makes you feel powerless. We have to engage with them anyway, and in fact we're very lucky they exist. I imagine having gone through such a big trauma and still dealing with the fallout weeks later is 1000 times worse. Your mom needs your help. Context of the bill (non-essential, but maybe helpful): I run cross country. Help? Okay, so my husband (34M) and I (30F) were just talking and it turned into a heated discussion. And during this time, the doctors and hospital admins explained that it would cost $8,000 to $20,000+ to 'have the baby my way (naturally)' due to possibly needing a surgery room, certainly needing a recovery room and extra night or two. Follow the link above to learn more OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Not going immediately to the hospital when my best friend went. AITA for not visiting my father in hospital? Not the A-hole. 11. Not the A-hole. With the US healthcare, the ambulance + my hospital stay racked up a lot of money. OP shares how he cut off his sister who abused him and his wife, and refuses to help her financially. I am experiencing anaphylactic shock: throat closing up, dizzy, the works. He's currently in the hospital (5 days r/AmItheAsshole •. Yesterday I had a doctors appointment that i had to bring my 7 month of son with. I (27F) have a friend (27F) who suffers from lupus. AITA For Deciding Not To Let My Husband Into The Delivery Room? Not the A-hole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: AITA for refusing to go to the hospital to seek help after (repeatedly) lying to my boyfriend. NTA. You will pay for everything (grocery shopping, bills, utilities, rent, restaurant meals, home decor) and he will use his salary on fun stuff and buy himself whatever he wants. AITA for being upset my wife didn't stay in the hospital with me? So I (35M) was in a motorcycle accident earlier this week. Oh man. Let that be your We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Lots of friends went to OSU and I work with both their Hospital and Business side frequently (I work for a large software company), and their education $$ pales in comparison to the hospital and football programs. I hate lying but in this case… you could just put it on the hospital. Subreddit Announcements. AITA for refusing to allow the hospital to discharge my wife to me? Asshole. A place where it's obvious OP is the asshole. AITA for not visiting my sister in the hospital? My (16m) sister (12f) has a lot of chronic conditions, and requires lots of surgeries among other things. Last night while she was packing the hospital bag, I put my nintendo switch and the charger in the bag. I've been booked in for a C-Section next month coz bubs is HUGE and it is a risk trying to deliver him/her naturally. 1. Before the podcast started reading reddit stories, the hosts would choose a topic and research it using Wikipedia. AITA for not wanting hospital visits from ILs but have my mom and sister there. My wife and I moved to a new town five years ago but she insists on keeping all of her doctors that are 30-40 min away. She must've gave my husband grief about refusing to help because he showed up to the hospital looking worried and acting like he cared. Sad_Cook12. Find out if you were wrong or right in an argument. I drove her to urgent care Saturday morning--she didn't want to go but I basically made her. I'm self-sufficient and rarely ask for help, but I need knee surgery and can't drive myself home from the hospital afterward. I then just dialed for emergency services. Honestly, these friends sound very selfish and But while I was in the hospital I had a fight with my mom and her husband but mostly my mom and I need some perspective on if I'm wrong or not. Earlier in the year I (f27) agreed to work a catering event for my sister (f33)which I was happy to do. For context, I (36M) am a doctor (specifically a pediatrician. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Not going immediately to the hospital when my best friend went. The rest of this occurs on Friday the 10th. She was in the hospital days prior for a medical issue and now she's better. I (33) get a call from the ER on Friday saying that my wife (32) drove herself there because of searing pelvic pain. I have returned and my sister had the expectation I would be still be THIS SUBREDDIT IS FOR A PODCAST CALLED Reddit On Wiki, THAT READS REDDIT STORIES. I had a collapsed lung and had a chest tube put in, a broken leg and arm and torn ligaments in my knee. Fair enough,. Last week was my stepdaughter's (SD) 14th birthday. I (19nb) went to a mental hospital a few months back throwawayctas. To provide some background, I'm a 19-year-old woman and I barely have a relati fancy_springbok. Jenny was walking Cathy’s dog, and they were walking ahead of us. If my port isn’t being used at least once a month, I have to get it flushed monthly. She called her mom before surgery. AITA - Wife Chose A Hospital To Birth Our First Child And I Don't Agree With It. COPYRIGHT NOTICE: Things posted on this page are subject for use on Two Hot Takes podcast and social media accounts. AITA for telling a terminally ill patient that I bet he’s dying to get out? No A-holes here. Subreddit for listeners of the Two Hot Takes Podcast! Here you can post your own write ins, thoughts on the stories shared on the pod, or any ideas for future episodes, etc. I had a subarachnoid hemorrhage 3 years ago so I understand why your family and hospital staff were so concerned and did what they did. AITA for not sticking up for my grandmother after my wife told her to f- off out of her hospital room? About 3 weeks ago my Wife-33 went into premature labor with our daughter at 31 weeks. My boyfriend had to go to the ER after a accident, and he got a truly ridiculous bill back. r/AmItheAsshole. 2. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here PsychologicalHair519. AITA for not paying a hospital bill? Not the A-hole. I decided that I will drop off the costumer first as I figured that it would be unprofessional of me to just tell her to get out of the car because of an emergency. The hospital my dad was in is pretty far from the destination of my costumer, but we were almost gettinf there when my mom called me. The hospital bill was him showing you who he is. Personally, for example, my phone is on sleep mode until 6. 6 years ago, my ex-husband had a psychotic episode in the car that almost ended in a fatal accident for all of us and since that, he is in a mental hospital. She called the doctor and was recommended she go to the hospital. Aita for telling my wife that I would choose my mom over the birth of our baby. She then asked for what, and I just replied with my balls hurt. ADMIN. my husband had been supporting me for this, i was invited to their house for dinner and some friend were invited as well, we were talking at the table and i excused myself to go to the bathroom, when i got out, a guy i know was outside the bathroom and told me to follow him, followed him and we were standing near a wall and i can hear fred Reply reply. I offered to fight the bill for her because I've done it before, and he said sure. AITA for going to the Hospital instead of working my sister's event. The conflict over the graduation ceremony is just the latest episode in a long-established problem. 2) I understand that he wants some support and I'm his partner so it's logical that he asks. Taking the posts seriously is heavily discouraged. Help keep the sub engaging! That said, these intensely selfish, callous types do exist and they are this bad. Alexis has a lot of health issues. My Wife decided because she had carried the children she would decide Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. AITAH for not wanting visitors in the hospital after I give birth? I (35F) and my partner (39M) are expecting our first child together. My husband of a year is the CEO of a local hospital and has been for 17 years. If you're willing and able, that's fine, but its' not your job. The doctors put her on insulin but it wasn’t working and her blood sugar levels were still high. My wife now has stage 4 colon cancer. It was entirely unexpected and both my wife and our daughter had a horrible time and it became quite dangerous for the both of them. I hung up before he could continue. sh je pv kp ht zn yi rp mf ov